Oops forget to select notify me of follow-up replies on this one. Sorry for the late reply.
I am not sure what the bwps_lockouts table is and do not understand the problem so I can’t really troubleshoot, but in general if you wanted to Whitelist an IP address you would use .htaccess code similar to this. This .htaccess code was copied from the BPS wp-admin .htaccess file.
#order deny, allow
#deny from all
# whitelist home IP address
#allow from 64.233.169.99
# whitelist work IP address
#allow from 69.147.114.210
#allow from 199.239.136.200
# IP while in Kentucky; delete when back
#allow from 128.163.2.27